Here’s the thing- sexual abuse/rape- aren’t sex.
For some of us it is some of us… it’s similar enough to still give us troubles enjoying it- or that it reminds us of it.. and others are able to make a clear distinction. Some are only able to do this with a partner who is careful and that they got to know, and others were able to make the distinction right off the bat.
It doesn’t mean that your sexual abuse wasn’t as bad as mine or anyone elses- it just means you were able to make that distinction.
And that’s… awesome. and I’m glad you’re able to do it. Especially if you had a good time. It’s no reason to feel guilty.
Take care of yourself, okay?
Ok so I’ve been seeing a ton of those ‘we need more representation at hogwarts’ posts and I was like hell why not more Jewish representation at Hogwarts (and like everywhere else but that’s another story). No like imagine though
- parents calling/or I guess…
But to put that another way, the ground was so solidly packed with the interlocked skeletons of 17th-century victims of the Great Plague that the Tube’s 19th-century excavation teams couldn’t even hack their way through them all. The Tube thus had to swerve to the side along a subterranean detour in order to avoid this huge congested knot of skulls, ribs, legs, and arms tangled in the soil—an artificial geology made of people, caught in the throat of greater London."
i read shit like this and think what could my imagination possibly have to add
like how do i write something about london that’s weirder than london already is?
why can’t periods just last for like an hour, like okay you’ve made your point, I’m not pregnant you can leave now
Anne Lamott, Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Wrinting and Life. (via bookporn)obstinate-and-headstrong)
some things i don’t give a shit about:
- straight people’s opinions about pride
- john green “reclaiming” the anne frank house “for love”
- larry’s storyline
the worst part about going back to school is the sudden and constant presence of heterosexuals
straight people feeling left out over queer representation is my favorite form of comedy